Be quick

Every time you hover around a girl waiting for ‘the perfect moment’ to approach her, you’re doing two things: One – you’re creeping her out and coming off as timid and shy, and two- you’re making yourself more nervous. A good rule of thumb is to approach a girl as soon as you spot her or as soon as she spots you and makes eye contact. By doing this you will come across as bold and confident; qualities that turn women on. Even if you say the wrong thing, it’s better to approach right away than to hesitate. In Day Game Training we have a rule when it comes to how to approach a girl…..”He Who Hesitates, Masturbates”.

Smile

This is a no-brainer. By smiling you come across as warm and friendly, things that work to your advantage when approaching a strange woman. Avoid being the guy that freaks out a woman by trying to look cool or tough by not smiling when approaching her. Also try to have a smile already on your face when she first notices you. Most people feel compelled to return a smile when it seems genuine and spontaneous, it’s a basic human reaction. And this will set a warm and open tone to the start of your interaction.

Don’t complicate things

When guys think about how to approach a girl they often worry what their opener is going to be and spend ages trying to settle on ‘the perfect line’ when approaching a woman. As the Italian Mafia would say, forget about it! When you first approach a strange woman, she’s going to be paying more attention to your vibe and body language than the exact words you’re saying. So focus more on your initial vibe and delivery, and you’ll find your approaches becoming much smoother.

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Keep it simple
During the first few seconds of your interaction, a woman is going to be sizing up a million and one things about you. She will be gauging your body-language, your outfit and deciding if you look like a serial killer. So keep your approach simple. This will give her the chance to get over the first few seconds of the interaction and respond to you in the most normal way possible.

Be outcome independent
Women can smell hidden intent a mile away. So the only thing on your mind when you’re thinking about how to talk to a girl is that you’d really love to meet her and hear her funny stories. Not how great her jeans would look on your bedroom floor.

Make it personal
After the first few minutes of conversation the primary thought running through a woman’s head is going to be, “Where is this going?” So you should aim to make the conversation personal, i.e. about you and her, as soon as you can.
For example you could say: “Hey I really like your laugh. What’s your name?” And when she gives you her name, you can say “Hi, Kathy. It’s nice to meet you. My name’s Artisan. Let’s go sit over at that bench and we can talk some more.”

Have a two way conversation
Remember player, no matter how good a dancer you are, you can’t tango alone. The art of talking to girls isn’t just in talking. It’s also important to get her to talk back and then listen. And you don’t need elaborate conversational gimmicks to do that. You just need to be bold about asking big questions and comfortable with silence until she contributes.

Keep it moving forward
There’s nothing more frustrating for a woman than having a great conversation with a guy who doesn’t take it forward. Remember, if she’s been enjoying the conversation with you for more than a few minutes, she’s most probably open to the idea of taking things somewhere. So invite her to join you for coffee, or set up a meeting next week. For God’s sake don’t be the guy that blabbers on until she gets bored or frustrated and leaves.

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The common notion is that the man is always trying to seduce the woman. But, you can reverse that idea and set a frame (underlying context of the interaction) that she is the sexual aggressor trying to make advances on you!

Learning how to flirt with women by suggesting or assuming that she’s hitting on YOU works great because it’s fun, sexual and sets you apart from what the average guy would do or say. And, by creating that frame that she is trying to get into your pants, it plants that seed in her mind. All you have to do is gently water the seed; nurture it and let it grow; and then FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF THE PLANT! OK OK sorry I got a little carried away there lol.

 

And, when she agrees with your statement and role-plays along with you by saying things like, “oh yeah I’m just trying to get in your pants lol” then she’s further solidifying that frame and playfully suggesting that YES she does in fact want to have sex with you.

When learning how to flirt with women, you should not over use any technique….or it looses it’s power. This should be something that is sprinkled in the conversation here and there.

Let’s see some examples shall we?

“I better go before you start to try to seduce me” (time constraint)

“No sex tonight….I know I’m sorry” (negation)

Her: “Can you pass me that napkin?”
You: “Is that some kind of sexual innuendo? Are you hitting on me” (playful/random)

“Stop trying to seduce me with your eyes (pause) of I will be forced to kiss you” (kiss escalation)

“You girls are all the same, you only have one thing on your mind” (sexual frame)

Remember this is only one technique in your arsenal on how to flirt with women. To learn more and become an expert on how to flirt with women, simply enroll in a Day Game Mastery Boot Camp with one of Day Game Training’s top trainers.

Your PUA training would often begin with the “day game”. This basically refers to meeting women during the day. Most men think that the best places to find women are in the bars and clubs since there are a lot of beautiful women partying there who are also searching for men. However, you cannot communicate with women in these places – clubs and bars tend to be loud and crowded where there are a lot of men like yourself, who are also in the hunt for hot women. On the other hand, you can easily approach women in relaxed places during the day.

In PUA training, you will know the benefits of the “day game”. These advantages include the following:

1. There is a big chance that you are going to meet women who have the same interests as you.
2. You will have a better opportunity to approach and talk to a woman. During the day, you can see a lot of women who are walking by themselves.
3. In casual places such as restaurants, train stations and the office, you do not have to fight the crowds, the noise, the music and other things. This means that you will be more relaxed in meeting women.
4. You do not have to exert so much effort in flirting just to talk to a woman since they are more comfortable during the day.

All in all, the best way to learn how to pick up women during the day is to get live pick up artist training (pua training) in your city. This way you’ll have a coach showing you exactly what to do, demoing for you, and giving you instant feedback on all your approaches. This is worth a thousand times more than any pickup artist training book or generic pick up artist training product. So register for your very own Day Game Mastery Bootcamp today!

Pick up Artist PUA day game is great for those individuals who do not enjoy going to bars and clubs just to find and meet different kinds of women. There are many advantages to PUA day game. For one, you do not have to use ‘pick-up lines’ just to attract someone’s attention. Most of the time, women feel quite defensive when a guy starts talking to them especially in places such as clubs and bars.

For instance, inside the bar or club, a woman may feel that she needs to be more careful when dealing with men. Furthermore, women inside a bar or club presume that they would get hit on. On the other hand, when a woman is just walking at the mall, she is just calm and in this state, women are easier to talk to, which is a perfect time to approach them.

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Pick up Artist PUA day game is the key to meeting and hooking up with any girl. PUA simply means pick up artist, someone who has mastered the different methods of seduction, flirting and dating. He knows the right way to approach women at the right time. Therefore, if you want to improve your skills in dating, you have to learn and master the techniques that it offers.

The Pick up Artist PUA day game concentrates on men’s regular daily routine. You always come across women – when you go to your office place and even when travelling to get home. You will always encounter different kinds of women at the bus or train station, at the office, at the mall, restaurants and in the street. In these everyday circumstances, there is less competition – this is where you can use this game. Once you learn the ‘game’, you will be able to approach girls, talk to them and even get their personal numbers and addresses and you will be able to attract and seduce women effortlessly as you go about your daily routine.

Another advantage is that you have a better chance of having a long-term relationship compared to just having a one-night stand with someone. It is a fact that a lot of women who go to bars are looking for some fun and excitement, which will not last for a long time. On the other hand, with PUA day game, you can be certain that you are going to meet women who also want a long-lasting relationship.

 

As you see, there are many advantages of meeting women during the day. If you want to learn how to meet women during the day OR you want to become a master pick up artist then take a day game mastery bootcamp with Artisan today!!!

And find the closest bootcamp. Believe me, day game is a million times easier than meeting women at bars, club, parties, or online…….IF you know the right way to do it.

Ok, we’ve all been there….your out on your lunch break or just running some errands at the mall and suddenly you see this stunning brunette who could probably pass as a Jessica Alba look a like. And then suddenly it happens, your mind goes completely blank. You freeze up and can’t think of a damn day game opener.

It’s OK there is a solution.

In fact, meeting women during the day is SUPER EASY…that is, if you have a simple system, the right body language and voice tonality, and aren’t afraid to “open”.

So without further ado, here are my top ten day game openers:

 

WARM UP DAY GAME PUA OPENERS:

1. “Excuse me, do you know where Starbucks is?” (she answers) “Actually, I just thought you were cute I’m not even looking for Starbucks…”
2. “Hey cool X, (X=item of clothing, hairstyle, etc.), quick questions” (then ask a double ended questions).

 

Example: “Hey cool hair style, quick question…was that something you picked or did your hair stylist come up with it?”

INDIRECT DAY GAME OPENERS:

3. “What’s your take on meeting people (at the mall, in LA, in an elevator, etc), because my friend Artisan said people are way too stuck up for that, but you seem cool” (Credit: PUA Vince Kelvin)

 

4. Cologne Opener (good for Victoria Secrets). Enter Victoria Secrets and ask for the men’s cologne. Then spray one brand on one wrist and side of your neck and the other brand on the other wrist and other side of your neck. Approach a woman shopping (or a worker) and say, “Excuse me, do you consider yourself a woman of good taste?” (she answers) “Well I’m trying to decide on which cologne to get, what do you think of this one (hold out your wrist). OK and this one? (other wrist)” (she answers). “Interesting, now I heard that smell is also determined by where it is on your body. Does it smell different on my neck?” (let her lean in and smell it)

 

5. “You look like you need a glass of wine. Long day?” (Credit: James Marshall)
Works great if she looks like she’s had a long day

DIRECT DAY GAME OPENERS:

6. “Excuse me, I need your help with something, lets say you are this (describe yourself) and your talking to this (describe her) what would you say if you wanted to flirt with her?”

She may respond with, “I don’t know”. Just say, “come on your a girl you’re supposed to be good at this whole flirting thing. I’ve got nothing” (Credit: Robbie Krammer)

Example: “Excuse me, I need your help with something, lets say you are this pretty confident rocker looking guy wearing a hat, and your talking to this cute blond about 5’3″ wearing a blue shirt, what would you say if you wanted to flirt with her?”

 

7. “Hey this is totally random, and maybe even a little cheesy, but you are too cute I had to at least say ‘hi'”

 

8. “I noticed you all the way from over there and new I’d kick myself if I didn’t come say ‘hi'”

GIRLS THAT ARE SHOPPING DAY GAME OPENERS:

 

9. In a retail store grab two woman’s articles of clothing and say, “Excuse me, I need your opinion, this one (hold up one piece of clothing) or this one (hold up the other one)”? (she answers). “Really?? Because I thought this one brought out my eyes more :)”

 

10. “Definitely….hot. I like. But, I just don’t think my mom will approve. You’re not thinking about wearing them tonight…”

***BONUS DAY GAME OPENERS:

 

MOTHER AND DAUGHTER
11. (Say to the mother) “Listen, I don’t mean to be rude but you’re sister is super cute and I wanted to totally inappropriately come say hi”

 

IF YOU’RE IN A HURRY OR SHE’S IN A HURRY

12. “Listen, I’m in a huge hurry but you are too damn cute….let’s take a chance and exchange numbers and if you’re totally cool on the phone, maybe we’ll hang out”


Now, of course there’s so much more to daygame than just opening, you want to bait the woman to chase you, demonstrate highly attractive attributes without bragging, give tons of value, close, set up a date, etc…….and honestly, you can read about how to do it, but what is that going to do?

That’s like reading about working out without actually going to the gym.

So instead of wasting your resources on books and products…..why not take an actual hands on course that will teach you exactly how to approach and attract women during the day, give you instant feedback and perfect your approach, and give you ongoing support and motivation?

It’s kind of a no brainer actually.

If you’re serious about meeting women during the day then take action and get the training you need to master day game!